In discussions regarding bedroom antics, most people will admit to anything. They’ll tell you that they dig the ass slapping and hair pulling. They’ll own up to BDSM fantasies and porn fiascos. The one thing that they won’t say though: “I dig anal.” The conversations that I’ve had with other women (and men) have made me see
With every new person you invite into your bed, you have to make decisions. Some take no thought at all: condom? Yes. Others are less serious: lights on or off? Dim. Being in a poly relationship can complicate this arena of a new relationship. Because the person that you are with, your primary partner, has a say-so in the decision making
One day after an intense color demo, I was finishing my webcomic, Mermaid Hostel, when I was hit with the most ARDENT sexual urges in my life. It was like a fog hit me and I sat drawing, sweating and feeling certain things in me pooling. Male voices from the lab in the basement drifted up to me via little holes in the knotty wood floor. "Calm
Just because I am poly does not mean that every person that I date is or will be. In fact, with one exception, none of my relationships have been poly. There were those that were monogamous and they tended to be understanding of the poly life. These relationships had their ups and downs, some ended on good terms and others on bad. But my being
“From the moment I saw you walk in with Jen, I wondered what it would be like to fuck you.” What do you even say to that? I mean, yeah, I’m so jaded as to believe all men undress every woman they meet and imagine what it would be like to have their way with them. Hell, I know the first thing I do when I meet a guy is check out his junk. But
Recently, Gwen reached out to our followers, readers, and avid fans to find out what kind of stories they really wanted us to include on the site. The biggest request was that we feature a “Nerd of the Week.” After much discussion between the two of us, we realized that showcasing the people each of us know and find interesting would be a
Being a girl, I know how women think (duh!). I know what we want to hear and how we want a situation to work out. But having a primary partner in my life and with my closest friends being all guys, I have become aware of just how oblivious men are to what women really want in regards to one thing…. Sex. I’ve written articles before
It never ceases to amaze me when friends that have been in relationship (or in and out of relationships) for years tell me that they are unsatisfied with their sex life. The discussions always lead down the same road….. That things have gotten boring. So in an effort to spice things up for all of you, my friends and readers; it is time to
Our newest writer Brooke sent me to lady mag site The Frisky the other day. Ever since then, I've been wasting too much time with their site, getting a feel for their writers and stories. I've been loving what I've read so far, and I especially enjoy their relationship/sex/guy section (shocking, I know). Today they posted a funny article on
If you’re planning a hot night with your paramour you may want to reconsider the foods you eat. I know it sounds kind of silly to point this out, because the foundation of a fun date always involves some sort of eating (be it food or sexy bits…), however sometimes we choose foods too hastily. Eating certain foods is guaranteed to get your
