Announcing to the world that I am polyamorous was a stressful decision. In order to meet like minded people, I started researching to branch out of what I thought was Midwest conservatism. Yes, that is right, this girl actually Googled "poly dating" to figure out how to do it. All my questions led me to realize that finding a person to date was
Being a girl, I know how women think (duh!). I know what we want to hear and how we want a situation to work out. But having a primary partner in my life and with my closest friends being all guys, I have become aware of just how oblivious men are to what women really want in regards to one thing…. Sex. I’ve written articles before
It never ceases to amaze me when friends that have been in relationship (or in and out of relationships) for years tell me that they are unsatisfied with their sex life. The discussions always lead down the same road….. That things have gotten boring. So in an effort to spice things up for all of you, my friends and readers; it is time to
Since announcing to the world, via NerdyPerv, that I was polyamorous, I felt a sense of relief. Most of my friends knew but there were those who didn’t. After the article went up, I found myself sitting down with my friends and family, one by one, to tell them. I got all sorts of responses: Why? Does it make you happy? Whatever
To orgasm or not to orgasm, that is the question. Women’s pleasure didn’t use to be such a talked about topic – it was all about the man. His needs, his wants, his ejaculation. Women’s climax was merely an afterthought. But this has changed so drastically that now it seems women are EXPECTED to orgasm every time – because if she
Let me start by saying the following story isn’t really a first date, or even a DATE for that matter. More of a chance encounter, a fantasy distraction from my long work day. I will just say this story describes the hottest thirty minutes one could imagine. I still have a hard time believing it really happened… Before I moved from San
NerdyPerv is used to people picking our brains when it comes to matters of the libido. Sometimes our resident sexpert can answer questions that leave Chris and Gwen scratching their heads or holding back giggles. She's the mature, respectable, and truly knowledgeable one amongst us. She keeps us in line and always brings the goods. The
It’s tough being a sexual athlete There have been a few men in my life (or rather in my bed) who seemed to have watched a bit too much porn in their free time. Now don’t get me wrong, I love porn. I watch all kinds of porn on a regular basis and quite enjoy it. All the sweaty bodies slapping together and gruff noises coming from the
If sex was a video game, the Threesome would no doubt be a major Unlockable Achievement. Many people joke about it, many fear it, but only a select few, it seems, ever go through with it. And for good reason: it’s hard enough to balance the emotional and physical needs between two people. Adding a third to the mix most definitely makes a
Lubricants are a great addition to any sexual activity. You can use it to reduce the friction during hour-long romp sessions, minimize discomfort, flavor body parts or maybe just to try something new. So now you have made the decision to try some -- but how the hell are you supposed to decide which ones to get with hundreds of choices out
