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The Morning After: Guide for Guys »

The Morning After: Guide for Guys

Being a girl, I know how women think (duh!). I know what we want to hear and how we want a situation to work out. But having a primary partner in my life and with my closest friends being all guys, I have become aware of just how oblivious men are to what women really want in regards to one thing…. Sex. I’ve written articles before

Foreplay: It is time to please your partner »

Foreplay: It is time to please your partner

It never ceases to amaze me when friends that have been in relationship (or in and out of relationships) for years tell me that they are unsatisfied with their sex life. The discussions always lead down the same road….. That things have gotten boring. So in an effort to spice things up for all of you, my friends and readers; it is time to

NerdyGirl’s Guide: Food For Thought »

NerdyGirl’s Guide: Food For Thought

If you’re planning a hot night with your paramour you may want to reconsider the foods you eat. I know it sounds kind of silly to point this out, because the foundation of a fun date always involves some sort of eating (be it food or sexy bits…), however sometimes we choose foods too hastily. Eating certain foods is guaranteed to get your

Latex, Leather, or Lace? What is your fetish? »

Latex, Leather, or Lace? What is your fetish?

Having a fetish used to be something that was completely behind closed doors but in the modern world, it isn’t something to be ashamed of anymore. I hear my girlfriends talk about the stuff they’ve done or my guy friends brag. I read posts and messages from online buddies who discuss how far they’ve pushed their limits or what they are into.

Seatbelts Everyone! It’s a Bumpy Road to »

Seatbelts Everyone! It’s a Bumpy Road to Polyamory

Making the decision to open a relationship should be well thought out.  It should be discussed in every detail, every what- if scenario highlighted, to ensure that no one gets their feelings hurt. Take it from someone who didn't do it quite like that. About five years ago, I had a drunken night. Well, I've had lots of drunken nights--but this

Nerdy Girl’s Confession: I Love Beards! »

Nerdy Girl’s Confession: I Love Beards!

I have a thing for beards.  I think they are ridiculously sexy and mysterious.  A boy can hide any imperfections behind it and it’s an instant invitation for a girl like me to touch a man’s face.  I do not recommend just walking up to some bearded fellow and touching his face--when not invited, that is considered bad touch and it is a bad

Did That Just Happen? The Funny and/or Embarrassing »

Did That Just Happen? The Funny and/or Embarrassing Parts of Sex.

We've all had something happen while in a bedroom moment that has made us burst out laughing or want to die of embarrassment. I am no exception to this. However, since each of us feels like we are alone in our mortification, I set out to prove that assumption wrong by asking a few of the members on SuicideGirls to share their stories with

Why cyber-sex isn’t just for the teens »

Why cyber-sex isn’t just for the teens

We all have those times when we are out of town or away from our current sexual partner.  It becomes a case of trying to figure out a way to maintain that sexual connection despite the distance.  The idea for this article was suggested to me by a friend and avid reader. He was venting about the fact that he has a hard time figuring out how to

Let’s Get Messy!: The myth or miracle of »

Let’s Get Messy!: The myth or miracle of “squirting”

When it comes to sex, what a woman can or can't do is a mystery. There is no way to determine how good she'll be in bed based on her appearance, or if her natural talents will be pleasing to her partner. As for me, I discovered one of my natural talents by accident. Most of my sexual adventures had been relatively mild, but I'd always known that I

Weighing Birth Control Options »

Weighing Birth Control Options

During my last relationship, I constantly sought out contraceptives that 1) didn't require too much work and 2) were hormone free.  I had read time and time again how The Pill and other hormone heavy forms of birth control not only changed my chemistry but also altered the types of people I was attracted to. I have a tendency to over-think