When it comes to sex, what a woman can or can't do is a mystery. There is no way to determine how good she'll be in bed based on her appearance, or if her natural talents will be pleasing to her partner. As for me, I discovered one of my natural talents by accident. Most of my sexual adventures had been relatively mild, but I'd always known that I
To orgasm or not to orgasm, that is the question. Women’s pleasure didn’t use to be such a talked about topic – it was all about the man. His needs, his wants, his ejaculation. Women’s climax was merely an afterthought. But this has changed so drastically that now it seems women are EXPECTED to orgasm every time – because if she
During my last relationship, I constantly sought out contraceptives that 1) didn't require too much work and 2) were hormone free. I had read time and time again how The Pill and other hormone heavy forms of birth control not only changed my chemistry but also altered the types of people I was attracted to. I have a tendency to over-think
Let me start by saying the following story isn’t really a first date, or even a DATE for that matter. More of a chance encounter, a fantasy distraction from my long work day. I will just say this story describes the hottest thirty minutes one could imagine. I still have a hard time believing it really happened… Before I moved from San
NerdyPerv is used to people picking our brains when it comes to matters of the libido. Sometimes our resident sexpert can answer questions that leave Chris and Gwen scratching their heads or holding back giggles. She's the mature, respectable, and truly knowledgeable one amongst us. She keeps us in line and always brings the goods. The
It’s tough being a sexual athlete There have been a few men in my life (or rather in my bed) who seemed to have watched a bit too much porn in their free time. Now don’t get me wrong, I love porn. I watch all kinds of porn on a regular basis and quite enjoy it. All the sweaty bodies slapping together and gruff noises coming from the
NerdyPerv is proud to introduce Jane, our featured guest columnist. Jane’s story is unique in that her marriage is based on the concept of mutual non-monogamy. While any relationship comes with its own complications – and certainly marriage is not immune to them – Jane’s soul-searching introspection and brazen honesty is an intimate look
First dates are already a hit-or-miss scenario. Discussing your first date train wrecks in a public forum: that should be embarrassing enough. When you’re a “sexpert”, however, they tend to be particularly bad – especially when the guy finds out what you do for a living. Here’s a small sliver of our senior contributor’s social life,
If sex was a video game, the Threesome would no doubt be a major Unlockable Achievement. Many people joke about it, many fear it, but only a select few, it seems, ever go through with it. And for good reason: it’s hard enough to balance the emotional and physical needs between two people. Adding a third to the mix most definitely makes a
Lubricants are a great addition to any sexual activity. You can use it to reduce the friction during hour-long romp sessions, minimize discomfort, flavor body parts or maybe just to try something new. So now you have made the decision to try some -- but how the hell are you supposed to decide which ones to get with hundreds of choices out
